by David McLintock
There is probably only one thing that is certain in life and that is that nothing in life is certain. None of us know what tomorrow may bring. We can hope and plan but sometimes life throws a really big curve ball at us and we just never see it coming.
For Steven Ball, “Bally” to those who know him, on the 29th June this year, his life took a devastating turn for the worse as his world was turned upside down and inside out in an instant and in fact, it nearly ended.
Steve was doing some work around his home and climbed up a tree to trim it back, when the tree branch snapped and he fell 3 – 4 metres onto his head, resulting in a severe brain injury.
He was flown to the Royal Brisbane and Woman's hospital where he stayed in ICU for 14 days and then moved to a ward where he stayed for a further 3 months.
I remember watching this young man play Rugby League in Yeppoon many years ago. I saw him tackle a player who I can only describe as “a mountain running with a ball” and Bally launched himself into this guy with every bit of force he could muster and I felt the ground shake and my own bones ache in sympathy as he met the tackle head on. I knew that if anyone could come through such an injury, “Bally” would be up for the challenge and once again face this challenge head on.
Because Steve's injury took place during Covid 19, his wife Kate created an Instagram page so his many family members and friends, who were unable to visit, could keep in touch.
“This platform has allowed them to follow along with Bally's progress,” Kate said. “It also helps spread the true strength of what love can do.”
The latest count of followers on their Instagram page is 1,229.
On
Kate's initial Instagram message she wrote, “The pain is
indescribable. The doctors in ICU definitely don’t sugar coat
anything, the words, “if he comes out of this” or “he will
never be the same again”. I remember walking out absolutely
heartbroken. Devastated. I would never have my best friend, my
husband back ever again. Thinking over and over, why us??!!! What
have we done to deserve this pain?.
It was one doctor! What I
remember of him is he wore these big gum boots. What I will never
forget of him is the words he said to me! He said, “Kate, we
wouldn’t be doing any of this or any of these procedures on your
husband if we didn’t think he had a chance.”
That’s it!
That’s all I needed to hear.”
Once Steve was awake it was all ahead of him. He had to learn to walk all over again, eat, shower and communicate along with other normal daily activities.
His rehabilitation continued at the Brighton Brain Injury Service for a further 5 weeks. Daily therapy consisted of speech, occupational and physio.
He was discharged on Tuesday 3rd November.
“He still has a very long journey ahead of him,” Kate explained, “but he wouldn't have come this far without the love and support received by so many, in particular, the local community of Biloela.”
Steve is now back home in Biloela where he will continue weekly therapy sessions along side his wife and 4 children. His main goal being communication and speech.
“We are so incredibly grateful and proud to be part of this wonderful community,” Kate added. “I had to get Bally home as this is where he feels most comfortable and at ease. The support and kindness shown by so many is truly amazing and we hope to see Bally continue to strive and enjoy his life with us, his family.”
Kate's younger brothers, Kerryn and Chris Benecke, started a Go Fund Me page not long after the accident which has raised approx. $25,000. These donations have helped support Steve and Kate and their children to relocate to Brisbane during Steve's rehabilitation. There have also been other fundraising events organised by groups such as Biloela Little Athletics Club, Gracemere Cricket Club, Turkey Tussie and Callide Valley Touch Football Association.
Most recently, Kate has been announced the winner of the Local Queensland Hero for 2020 in a competition held by Intrust Super. The major prize is a lunch for her and 10 mates in Biloela with some of the Queensland State of Origin Greats.
“Bally is the real hero,” Kate declared, “and I can't wait to see his face when we get to the lunch and he meets these legends of the game. It's such a wonderful reward for all the courage and hard work he has shown and his determination to be back home here with his family and friends.”
You can follow Bally's progress and support this inspirational family on Instagram @love.will.heal.him